What Do I Do With Myself Now…?
Friends, I wrote this the night before we left for the hospital and before I hit “publish”, Holly had other plans. None the less, I wanted to share these thoughts and a bit about my career because so many of you message me with questions.
Rest!
Enjoy the peace and quiet!
Shower and wash your hair!
Shower again just because you CAN!
Take naps!
Watch trash TV.
Read trashy books!
Binge a new series!
Get a mani/pedi!
Nest!
These are all the stock piled ideas I’ve been given by family and friends as I glide into my maternity leave which officially started September 18th. Due to some blood pressure complications, my Dr. decided the safest thing for me was to bow out of work a week early, so I could focus on getting my blood pressure down, decrease my stress, not worry about a commute, eat meals on time, drink gallons of water….all the good things you can do with an extra 8 hours in a day with no children or spouse at home! Now, this list above is dreamy and so decadent, but this feeling of being home, not sick, not waiting for Comcast, without an active to-do list, and somewhat responsibility-free is completely foreign to me. And I know, I know…..it’ll all change very soon and I should enjoy it. But this is truly a first for me!
I started working in Human Resources in 2007, 1 week after I finished my senior project for my undergraduate degree. Since then I’ve taken extended vacations here and there throughout my career (the brave 2 week trip to Europe my bff and I took just after college, those dreamy summer jaunts to Maui, wedding season-need I say more, took 3 weeks for our Honeymoon, etc.) but haven’t ever had time for myself at home, without a hearty, chaotic, jam-packed social agenda or without a plane ticket sitting on the kitchen table about to be used.
Simply put, I really enjoy going to work! I spend M-F at a tech company in Silicon Valley, am an HR Business Partner supporting engineering and there’s truly nothing else I’d rather do (from a working perspective, of course). My day-to-day is completely unpredictable, which fits my personality like a glove–I can come into work one day and my day flows exactly as my calendar dictates and the next day something can happen (org changes, new projects, an employee issue, a hairy leadership situation) and my entire day is turned upside down. Its wild, interesting, keeps me on my toes, is completely stressful and busy, and the best part is, I never stop learning new things.
Given all this, you can imagine my feeling of not reallyyyyy knowing what to do with myself when I woke up last Thursday, turned my Out of Office Reply on, set my work phone on silent, poured a cup of coffee, and turned on Kelly and Michael to find someone from South Dakota win a trip to St Lucia in Travel Trivia! Don’t get me wrong, I really enjoyed the morning TV lineup until about 11 when things got real dry with game shows or Law and Order SVU reruns (I’m an avid Mariska fan, but have admittedly seen all seasons 3-4 times each). So, my question to all of you is: What should I add to my pre-baby, daytime independent-woman, don’t-want-to-waste-this- precious-me-time bucket list?! Comment below or send me a DM! I want to hear it all.
Oh, and I just got the mani/pedi today and am sufficiently sucked in to watching The View Monday through Friday now, so make sure that fits into your agenda for me!
xo
Val
2 Comments
Linn Smith
Yep. That’s what babies do. They have a mind of their own. The day my sob was born I thought I was getting a haircut, having lunch with friends and putting things back after pest control. No instead he blasted me out of bed at 4 30 am and it was off to the hospital. At 1: 13 in the afternoon he arrived. I still tease him about ruining my day off
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They have their own agendas 🙂